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How can we help?

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We both want to divorce and agree on most things

The divorce is contested — we don’t agree

Children are involved and arrangements need to be sorted out

We need to divide assets or deal with the matrimonial property

The matter is becoming urgent or one side is acting badly

I’m not sure where to start

What we help you do

Group 1: The divorce process

  • Uncontested divorce (joint or simplified where appropriate)
  • Contested divorce proceedings
  • Drafting and negotiating settlement agreements
  • Managing the court process and timeline

Group 2: Children and parenting

  • Parenting plans and care arrangements
  • Contact, residence and day-to-day responsibilities
  • Child-focused negotiation and dispute resolution
  • Interim arrangements where things are uncertain

Group 3: Finances and property

  • Matrimonial property and accrual calculations
  • Division of assets, property and shared liabilities
  • Maintenance (spousal and child) linked to divorce
  • Pension interests and financial clean breaks

Divorce doesn’t have to mean a courtroom battle

Most people expect divorce to be adversarial, expensive and drawn out. It doesn’t have to be.

Where both parties are willing to engage, a negotiated settlement is usually faster, less costly and far less damaging — for everyone, especially children.

Where agreement isn’t possible, we litigate carefully and strategically. But we always start by looking for the cleaner route.

How We Work

 (so you know what happens next)

Step 1: Understand your situation

We listen to what’s happening, what you need to protect and what outcome matters most to you.

Step 2: Map the route forward

We explain the process clearly — the options, the likely timeline and the trade-offs — so you can make informed decisions.

Step 3: Negotiate or litigate — with purpose

Where settlement is possible, we pursue it. Where it isn’t, we represent you firmly and carefully.

Step 4: Put the agreement in place properly

We make sure orders and settlement agreements are correctly drafted, enforceable and sustainable for the long term.

You’ll know where you stand, what comes next, and that someone steady is managing it with you.

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Outcomes that reduce conflict and create workable next steps

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The team

Work with a team that keeps it practical

Team Leader

George Herbst

Director

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Isabel van den Ende

Senior Associate - Family Law

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Danielle Mylie

Senior Associate - Family Law

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