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How can we help?

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We want to resolve things without going to court

We’ve reached an agreement — we need it properly documented

We’re close to agreement but stuck on a few issues

Divorce or separation is involved and we want to settle

Children’s arrangements need to be agreed

The other party isn’t engaging — I need advice

What we help you do

Group 1: Mediation and negotiated resolution

  • Family mediation — facilitated and legally supported
  • Structured negotiation between parties and their legal representatives
  • Pre-litigation settlement engagement
  • Reaching agreement on complex or emotionally charged issues

Group 2: Settlement documentation

  • Drafting settlement agreements that are clear and enforceable
  • Consent orders and parenting plans made an order of court
  • Making sure what’s agreed is properly reflected in the legal documents
  • Closing gaps that informal agreements tend to leave open

Group 3: Specific family dispute resolution

  • Divorce settlement — financial, property and parenting issues
  • Maintenance agreements and consent papers
  • Child care and contact arrangements by agreement
  • Resolving disputes without unnecessary court involvement

Agreeing isn’t losing — it’s often the better outcome

Many people approach family disputes expecting a fight — and end up in one, even when both sides wanted to avoid it. Mediation works best when both parties are willing to engage, but it doesn’t require perfect agreement at the start. It requires a process that creates the conditions for agreement.

The best family law outcomes are usually ones where both sides feel heard, the children’s needs are central, and the result is something everyone can actually live with. That’s what we work towards.

How We Work

 (so you know what happens next)

Step 1: Understand the dispute and what resolution looks like

We listen to what’s in dispute, what matters most and what a workable outcome would actually need to include.

Step 2: Assess whether mediation is the right route

Not every matter is suitable for mediation. We’ll give you an honest view of whether it’s likely to work and what the alternatives are if it isn’t.

Step 3: Support the mediation or negotiation process

We help prepare you, represent your interests in negotiations and make sure the legal dimensions of any proposed agreement are properly understood.

Step 4: Document and finalise the agreement

We draft the settlement agreement, consent order or parenting plan — making sure it’s legally sound, enforceable and reflects what was actually agreed.

You’ll have a clear picture of whether mediation is the right route, what the process involves, and what a properly documented agreement looks like.

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Outcomes that reduce conflict and create agreements that last

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The team

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Team Leader

George Herbst

Director

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Isabel van den Ende

Senior Associate - Family Law

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Danielle Mylie

Senior Associate - Family Law

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