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How can we help?

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We need to sort out care and contact arrangements

We need a parenting plan drafted or formalised

The other parent isn’t following the agreed arrangements

I want to change or challenge existing arrangements

There are concerns about the child’s safety or wellbeing

I’m not sure what my parental rights are

What we help you do

Group 1: Care, contact and residence

  • Primary care and residence arrangements
  • Contact schedules and holiday arrangements
  • Day-to-day and long-distance parenting
  • Interim arrangements where things are unsettled

Group 2: Parental responsibilities and rights

  • Guardianship and decision-making authority
  • Acquiring or terminating parental responsibilities and rights
  • Unmarried fathers and the legal position
  • Relocation — local and international

Group 3: Disputes, enforcement and variation

  • Parenting plan drafting and disputes
  • Enforcement where arrangements are not being followed
  • Varying existing orders and plans when circumstances change
  • Urgent applications where a child’s welfare is at risk

The law puts the child first — and so do we

In every dispute about children, the court’s primary question is the same: what is in the best interests of this child? That means the focus is rarely on who is “right” or “wrong” as a parent — it’s on what arrangement best supports the child’s stability, safety and development.

We help clients understand that framing early, because it changes how disputes are approached — and often makes resolution more achievable.

How We Work

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Step 1: Understand the situation

We listen to what’s happening, what the child needs, and what outcome you’re trying to protect.

Step 2: Clarify your rights and options

We explain your legal position, the likely routes forward and what the court would consider — in plain language.

Step 3: Negotiate or apply — with the child in mind

Where agreement is possible, we work towards it. Where it isn’t, we make the strongest case for the arrangement that serves the child best.

Step 4: Put it in place properly

We make sure parenting plans and court orders are correctly drafted, practical and enforceable.

You’ll have a clear picture of your rights, a realistic sense of the process, and a steady hand guiding it.

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Outcomes that put children’s interests first

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The team

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Team Leader

George Herbst

Director

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Isabel van den Ende

Senior Associate - Family Law

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Danielle Mylie

Senior Associate - Family Law

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